I'd like to be a tester: keep trying those suckers until I find my prince. I think it's good to have a different dildo for every occasion. It requires some good firm action--a really wild orgasm to tame those cramps. Twice I thought I heard Caveman coming upstairs to join me. I'm just a babe in Anal Land so far and have much more to experience, but right now when I feel like having something in there for an orgasm, good heavens it's the greatest feeling. I went upstairs to change out of my sweaty clothes. My fingers are still very cold from the water bottle and they feel good. Now I can imagine myself doing that, making a woman slowly squirm and moan and gush and scream the way the Caveman does me. Between my times with him, and sex toys (not yet purchased! Once I found people describing similar situations, it gave me the encouragement to start this one.