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Christian dating breakups

The wiring in most of us has us longing for the wedding day.

Breakups in the church are painful and uncomfortable, and many of us have or will walk this dark and lonely road. God engineered romance to express itself in fidelity and loyalty — in oneness (Genesis ; Matthew 19:9; 1 Corinthians 7:2–13).

So here are nine lessons for building hope and loving others when Christians end a not-yet marriage. Maybe you didn’t see it coming, and the other person suddenly wants out. Without the ceremony and covenant, it’s a divorce, but it can feel like it. Because dating is only a means to marriage, God’s design for our marriages speaks to his design for our dating relationships.

If we refuse to pray in dating, we refuse to receive the precious resources we need most in dating.