Start Dating 101 why guys dump girls they dig

Dating 101 why guys dump girls they dig

ESSENCE's own Matchmaking Duo talk with hundreds of men a year about why they are so quick to move into another relationship after a big breakup.

The next thing you know, he’s married to someone else.

When I asked her why, the only thing she would tell me was that she didn’t feel about me the way that she did at the beginning.

Basically, she said that she loved me but she was not “in love” with me anymore. I tried to get her to talk about it, and to see if there were any more details as to what happened, but she refused to tell me much more than she already had.

But—just last week, right when I had made up my mind to really start to get on with my own life—out of the blue, she started calling and texting me again. She said that when she broke up with me, it was because she was confused and it was all just a big mistake. It was actually just a smokescreen—to blind you to what she really did.