Start Guide to online dating for women

Guide to online dating for women

You should start by thinking how will you describe yourself and focus on your objective.

After having some good notes, you’re ready to proceed.

This step is probably the most important of them all.

Play the Field"It's important to be in more than one community," Davis says.

"It's like being in more than one social circle." She suggests joining one mainstream site (say, e Harmony or Match.com) as well as one niche service, such as Cupidtino, which brings Apple-product obsessives together, or the unapologetically elitist Sparkology (the site's men—but not its women! "Changing sites from time to time, and then revisiting, is the best strategy," says Davis. Ace Your Profile"Your user name is going to inspire them to click," says Davis, who suggests a terminology mash-up (e.g., Sporty Smile).

Write down a small text or bullet points about you and what you like in men.

Meeting with a friend is a good thing to do at this stage, no one better to help you with your profile than a close friend.

For instance, does “loves sports” mean you’re up for cross-country skiing and white-water rafting, or is it a declaration that every weekend is devoted to channel-surfing the pro and college games? Potential dates skimming your profile are more likely to respond to specifics.

Believe me, it’s a much better strategy than scheduling a coffee date and finding you have little or nothing in common.

Use the classic dating strategies: introductions through friends, blind dates, meeting through activities (work, recreation, religious, etc.), and plain old serendipity. Through them, you'll probably meet women who also enjoy them, women who might become friends — and eventually, maybe more. So the odds are in men's favor — and women know it. Try to correct misinformation, or at least be prepared to prove that you're not the escaped serial killer who shares your name.

Photos increase men's response rate 40 percent — for women, photos triple it! Beyond saying, "You're really cute and you live near me," you can add that like the woman you're contacting, you also play tennis and enjoy jazz.

Whether you’re you want to boost your success of an existing profile, or you would like to know if online dating is for you, or just want to give it a good start, you came to the right place.


 
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